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How This Boston-Based Organization Prevents Girls from Being Sex Trafficked

My Life My Choice is a Boston-based organization that helps prevent vulnerable girls from falling victim to commercial sexual exploitation.

By November 22, 2019No Comments
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Amidst bleak news stories and tragedies that seem to fill our feeds and screens, it is always important to see the other side and hear about the people who are committed to driving change, especially within their own communities.

From changemakers like Richie Hardcore who educates boys in Australia about healthy masculinity and porn’s harms to Tina Frundt who rescues sex trafficking victims, there is a host of causes that have been championed and that are triggering change in people’s day-to-day lives.

Related: Meet The Female College Students Who Bike The Pacific Coast To Fight Child Sex Trafficking (VIDEO)

At Fight the New Drug, we believe that sharing personal experiences and real-life stories is powerful. Hearing from people you can relate to and learn from can be inspiring and life-changing.

Because of this, we want to shine the spotlight on some amazing changemakers that have taken strides to end sex trafficking in their community using a revolutionary approach.

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Introducing: “My Life My Choice”

My Life My Choice is a Boston-based organization that helps prevent vulnerable girls from falling victim to commercial sexual exploitation (CSE).

Founded and run by survivors, the organization works to empower young girls that are victims of or high-risk for CSE, particularly those in the child welfare system, where 85% of victims come from. Here’s how their program works.

The name of the game: prevention

My Life My Choice targets this critical issue using preventative rather than more common reactive measures, through mentorship and leadership programs as well as training sessions for key partners. They believe prevention stretches beyond creating awareness, so they designed a Prevention Solution Model that focuses on anticipating CSE through the use of education, policy shifts, and system-wide changes.

Related: Child Sex Trafficking Survivor Cyntoia Brown Released From Prison After Serving 15 Years For Killing Sex Buyer

What’s the star player in its prevention model? The Exploitation Prevention Curriculum, a 10-session program developed over 15 years ago. The curriculum is led by a facilitator who is a clinician or CSE survivor, and she works to build participants’ knowledge about the  commercial sex industry and develop media literacy skills to overcome the obstacles in making, “behavior and safety-oriented changes.”

It’s proven to be seriously effective, too: used to train facilitators in 33 states and Canada, it’s helped over 2,300 young people. It is the first comprehensive prevention curriculum in the U.S., designed and written by survivors, and has been evaluated for three years by the National Institute for Justice (NIJ). Talk about making change.

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Is this program effective?

Last year, Boston University, funded by the NIJ, completed the first evaluation of this first ever sexual exploitation prevention program in the U.S.

The study was meant to, “[measure] behavior change and shifts in knowledge and attitudes about CSE and its harmful impact on youth (including questions about the recruitment tactics that pimps use, myths/facts about the commercial sex industry, healthy relationships, and drug and alcohol use as it pertains to CSE.”

Related: By The Numbers: Is The Porn Industry Connected To Sex Trafficking?

The results are pretty amazing, too. The study found that the participants, 300 14-year-olds across four states, demonstrated indicators that they were immediately less at risk for CSE and three months after undergoing My Life My Choice Prevention Curriculum course.

They found things like:

Immediately after the program…
  • Reported ½ as many episodes of sexually explicit behavior (like sending naked images, or trading sex for favors, food, shelter)
  • Reduction by 24% in reporting dating abuse
  • Willingness to share CSE-related information and help for friends increased 40%

Related: Why Do Some People Fight Against Sex Trafficking But Unconditionally Support Porn?

And at the three-month follow up…
  • Dating abuse victimization reports were twice as unlikely
  • Displayed understanding of issues and harms relating to CSE
  • 100% of participants helped a friend with CSE-related info

This research is extremely useful because having evidence-based prevention strategies gives credibility to organizations like My Life My Choice, and helps drive their Preventative Solution Model.


Looking Behind-the-Scenes

The work of organizations like My Life My Choice is inspiring, and is helping to change the lives of thousands of girls, starting with their own community.

This issue is increasingly important because the numbers of commercial sexual exploitation and sex trafficking aren’t decreasing, and this is especially the case for children, where the International Labor Organization (ILO) and United Nations (UN) estimates have grown from 21% to 30% of total trafficking cases.

Related: Report: The US Is One Of The Biggest Consumers Of Sexual Exploitation In The World

In fact, ILO estimates from back in 2000 found that there were approximately 1.8 million children being exploited in two forms of CSE: child prostitution and child pornography.

While there are numerous influences contributing to CSE, it’s important to understand that pornography can both be a type of CSE (if it’s child pornography), and a factor in its realization (groomed via more hardcore porn). Unfortunately, many people see prostitution, sex trafficking and pornography as unconnected spheres, and fail to grasp the underlying links that bind them all together.

Porn Econ 101

If you’ve ever taken an Economics class, you know that the Law of Demand is a powerful force. If you increase demand, the quantity supplied increases. If you lower the demand, the quantity supplied goes down.

What happens when we apply this logic to pornography?

Research shows how pornography is fuels the demand for sexual exploitation and sex trafficking, through something called “derived demand.”

As a very basic example of how this works, consider this: pornography is enticing for traffickers who profit off of producing it using their victims (which some studies show occurs in almost 50% of trafficking cases), and in turn use it as a grooming tool especially for children. Furthermore, as porn normalizes “younger and crazier” sexual partners and sex acts, it’s not uncommon to find consumers driven to act out with prostituted persons what they see in porn, and obliging traffickers providing actually younger sexually exploited individuals—even if they’re underage teens.

Related: How The Porn Industry Quietly Fought To Stop Keeping Official Records Of Performers’ Ages—And Won

So let’s go back to our Econ model: increase the demand for porn with younger-looking performers, and the market will theoretically respond with a corresponding increase in supply. Whether that supply simply looks young or is young is sometimes unclear. However, rising numbers of CSE victims and child pornography content suggest a relationship could possibly exist.

Thorn reports that the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children (NCMEC) reviews over 25 million images for child pornography a year and rising…breaking that down, it’s almost 500,000 a week. 

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There’s hope in all of us

While the numbers aren’t exactly uplifting, organizations like My Life My Choice aren’t backing down. They’re committed to working to end CSE no matter what. They recognize that if we want the world to be a better place, they have to start with their community. If people can create a negative change, they can also create a positive one, right?

And you? Have you considered that in order to #BetterTheWorld, we need to look around and within and see that this positive change begins with us? Start today by refusing to click porn.