With the passing of age-verification laws, Pornhub is now blocked in 17 US States. While some parents believe this will keep their children from accessing porn, VPNs can easily bypass state restrictions.
What are VPNs?
VPNs (short for Virtual Private Networks) are network architectures that encode your internet traffic. “A VPN establishes a digital connection with a user’s computer and routes it through a remote server owned by a VPN provider which encrypts the personal data.”MacLauchlan, J., & Cone, A. (2025, January 6). Florida VPN Google searches skyrocket after Pornhub blocks state. CBS News. https://www.cbsnews.com/miami/news/pornhub-florida-vpn-google-searches-skyrocket/Copy Through Virtual Private Networks, users’ privacy is protected. VPNs can change your IP address, hide your activity, and even get around geographic restrictions. Essentially, VPNs allow you to connect to the internet in another state or country.
Unfortunately, this means that with a VPN downloaded, children can go around state restrictions on pornography.
In this article by Business Insider, they found that “searches for VPNs in Florida skyrocketed after Pornhub exited the state,” with VPNMentor detecting “a surge of 1,150% in VPN demand” when the age-verification law came in place.Nelken-Zitser, J. (2025, January 9). After Pornhub left Florida, VPN demand surged by more than 1,000%. Business Insider. https://www.businessinsider.com/pornhub-exited-florida-vpn-demand-surged-by-over-1000-percent-2025-1Copy “From the week of Dec. 22 – 28 to Dec. 29 – Jan. 4, searches nearly doubled. Since then, the numbers have gone even higher.”MacLauchlan, J., & Cone, A. (2025a, January 6). Florida VPN Google searches skyrocket after Pornhub blocks state. CBS News. https://www.cbsnews.com/miami/news/pornhub-florida-vpn-google-searches-skyrocket/Copy
Having adult websites blocked is simply not enough to stop underage users from viewing pornography. There is always a loophole to get through, and with VPNs, your children can connect to the internet in places where Pornhub is not blocked.
So, what can parents do to protect their children?
Engage in open, honest conversations about porn.
This is truly the best way to keep your kids safe. The reality is that 84.4% of boys aged 14-18 and 57% of girls aged 14-18 have seen pornography.https://dev.fightthenewdrug.org/for-parents-caregivers-how-to-talk-to-your-kids-about-porn/Copy It is very likely that your child has already seen it or will eventually see it. If they have viewed porn or developed a habit, they could be feeling a lot of shame. Jay Stringer says, “Shame is experienced most acutely when we are seen by the eyes of another.”https://dev.fightthenewdrug.org/3-ways-facing-your-shame-can-help-you-break-free-from-porn/Copy Your children may want to hide or keep it to themselves. They may see their experience with porn as something that makes them unlovable.
By having conversations with your children about sex and pornography, you are creating a safe, trusting environment for them that encourages both awareness and honesty. “Through your discussions, you can help your child develop the tools they need to respond to harmful material in a healthy way.”https://dev.fightthenewdrug.org/for-parents-caregivers-how-to-talk-to-your-kids-about-porn/Copy These conversations can also lead to stronger parent-child relationships as you encounter these difficult subjects together.
It is better for your children to learn about these topics from you than to learn about them from media or porn sites.
Where do you start?
If you’re wondering where to get the tools to have these conversations with your kids, Fight The New Drug has a library ready to give you the facts and resources you need.
- Check out our Parents page, which gives you podcast episodes and articles that are more specific to children and parenthood.
- Watch our age-appropriate documentary, Brain Heart World, which highlights the science, research, and true stories of the harmful effects of pornography.
- Look at our YouTube channel, which has podcast episodes, interviews, and videos on the facts.
- Listen to our podcast Consider Before Consuming, where we talk with experts, public figures, and others to discuss their thoughts on porn.
Parents, we know these conversations can be scary. Sometimes, it feels easier to avoid them. Trust us; it is better when parents and kids talk it out. We’re here to help you on this journey.
Your Support Matters Now More Than Ever
Most kids today are exposed to porn by the age of 12. By the time they’re teenagers, 75% of boys and 70% of girls have already viewed itRobb, M.B., & Mann, S. (2023). Teens and pornography. San Francisco, CA: Common Sense.Copy —often before they’ve had a single healthy conversation about it.
Even more concerning: over half of boys and nearly 40% of girls believe porn is a realistic depiction of sexMartellozzo, E., Monaghan, A., Adler, J. R., Davidson, J., Leyva, R., & Horvath, M. A. H. (2016). “I wasn’t sure it was normal to watch it”: A quantitative and qualitative examination of the impact of online pornography on the values, attitudes, beliefs and behaviours of children and young people. Middlesex University, NSPCC, & Office of the Children’s Commissioner.Copy . And among teens who have seen porn, more than 79% of teens use it to learn how to have sexRobb, M.B., & Mann, S. (2023). Teens and pornography. San Francisco, CA: Common Sense.Copy . That means millions of young people are getting sex ed from violent, degrading content, which becomes their baseline understanding of intimacy. Out of the most popular porn, 33%-88% of videos contain physical aggression and nonconsensual violence-related themesFritz, N., Malic, V., Paul, B., & Zhou, Y. (2020). A descriptive analysis of the types, targets, and relative frequency of aggression in mainstream pornography. Archives of Sexual Behavior, 49(8), 3041-3053. doi:10.1007/s10508-020-01773-0Copy Bridges et al., 2010, “Aggression and Sexual Behavior in Best-Selling Pornography Videos: A Content Analysis,” Violence Against Women.Copy .
From increasing rates of loneliness, depression, and self-doubt, to distorted views of sex, reduced relationship satisfaction, and riskier sexual behavior among teens, porn is impacting individuals, relationships, and society worldwideFight the New Drug. (2024, May). Get the Facts (Series of web articles). Fight the New Drug.Copy .
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